The thread: Symmetry settles it
Point groups from coordinates
A molecule's symmetry is not a label to be looked up. It is decidable from the atom positions by searching for the operations that permute them, and the search either finds an operation or it does not.
Where the atoms goFive sites are not alike
Every other common arrangement has one or two distinct angles. Five has three, because two of its positions are on an axis and three are round an equator — and a molecule built that way does something about it.
Bonding modelsExactly zero
Where symmetry forbids an interaction the overlap is not small. It is zero — and computing it and finding arithmetic noise is a different kind of statement from computing it and finding a small number.
What symmetry decidesSymmetry forbids a dipole
Whether a molecule can have a dipole moment follows from its point group alone. The usual argument — adding up bond vectors — gets the right answer for easy cases by a route that does not generalise.
Beyond the octetDelocalisation
Benzene does not alternate between two structures. It has one structure, and the two Kekulé forms are basis functions in a description of it — which is a different and much less exciting claim than the one usually made.
What symmetry decidesChirality is a symmetry statement
A molecule is chiral when its group contains no improper operation at all. The four-different-groups rule is a useful special case that misses molecules with no stereocentre and wrongly condemns some that have several.
What is taught wronglyThe dipole is not a sum of bonds
Adding bond dipoles as vectors gets the easy cases right and rests on a quantity with several incompatible definitions. The symmetry argument is exact, needs no electronegativities, and says when the answer must be zero.