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The thread: One electron only
Every orbital drawn here is a hydrogen-like solution. A many-electron atom has no exact orbitals at all, and keeping that in view is the difference between a model and a picture of reality.
Orbitals
What an orbital is
Not a region the electron occupies, not a path it follows, and for any atom but hydrogen not an exact anything. An orbital is a one-electron wavefunction, and almost every difficulty in this subject comes from forgetting that.
OrbitalsSay what it encloses
An orbital picture is a contour at a level somebody chose, and almost no source says which. Two textbooks can draw the same orbital at visibly different sizes with the same caption, and both be printed in good faith.
What is taught wronglyOrbitals are not where the electron is
A many-electron atom has no exact orbitals at all. The orbital picture is a basis for an approximation — an extremely good one — and treating it as a description of reality is the source of most of the confusion in this subject.